Whoever, or whatever, holds the power of influence over our lives steers our direction and determines our final outcome. Many people believe they set their own course independent of the influence of others. Truthfully, we are all swayed by people, especially those the closest to us. Based on this truth, companies invest over a trillion dollars in advertising annually. Voices, large or small, influence our decisions and choices.
Anita Roddick, British business woman and founder of The Body Shop, agrees, “If you think you are too small, try going to bed with a mosquito.” Cartoonist Scott Adams said, “You don’t have to be a “person of influence” to be influential. In fact, the most influential people … are probably not even aware of the things they’ve taught me.” They all agree with what the Bible declared hundreds of years ago. For better or worse, we are readily influenced.
So, Jesus, challenges us to influence people for good, becoming light to the world around us.
“In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.“
Matthew 5:16
For Better
Some people perhaps enjoy being in the spotlight. I, however, cower when I think of being placed on center stage. Many people see me as an extrovert — comfortable and able to shine in the public forum. The few people who know me best, however, know I would far rather seclude myself in my tiny office, writing or painting, with quiet worship music or the songs of birds and gentle streams ebbing from my computer. Jesus’ command to let my light shine and be seen, however, pushes me beyond personal comfort.
Jesus knows that everyone needs to “see” good deeds practically lived out. Godly examples inspire others to follow their lead. Experiences of embarrassment or shame often cause us to prefer the shadows of obscurity. We shink back when we feel more like an annoying mosquito than a positive influencer.
Timothy must have felt something similar, because Paul gave him this advice.
“Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.”
1 Timothy 4:12
We all “set an example.” Is the example we set for the better or for the worse?
For the Worse
Paul’s heart broke over the waywardness of the Corinthians believers. He reminded them of their past.
“You know that when you were pagans, somehow or other you were influenced and led astray to mute idols.”
1 Corinthians 12:2
I could certainly share more than a few instances where I was “led astray” or even lead others off course. We all look to the opinion of others. Sometimes, that is good. Sometimes it is not.
We must measure every voice and influence by the solid Word of God and the life of Jesus. Though we may have good intentions and start out in the right direction, whether intentionally or unintentionally, we may stray somewhere along the journey. We may not consider ourselves to be what Jesus called “salt” right now, but we all have the potential of doing better tomorrow.
“You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot.“
Matthew 5:13
Jesus gives us this warning to value all that God has done in us. We must guard it carefully and hold on to the positive power of influence we have upon others.
Poor friendship choices will have a detrimental effect on the direction of our lives and our spiritual progress.
“Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”
1 Corinthians 15:33
Power of Influence
May we all use our power of influence to encourage others and to build them up in the faith. Let this be our goal.
- “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm” (Proverbs 13:20).
- “In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us” (Titus 2:7-8).
- “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds” (Hebrews 10:24).
- “Brothers, join in imitating me, and keep your eyes on those who walk according to the example you have in us” (Philippians 3:17).
- “Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1)
We make moment-by-moment choices. Will we live like a mosquito in the bedroom, ready to wound those around us? Or will we be like salt that preserves and brings out the best in others?
Honestly, we may all feel more like a mosquito than salt some days. However, by remembering that we all have a power of influence helps us to be conscience of the effect we potentially have on others. I am sure that we all want to bring a little more salt into our homes and communities.
Be Salt
Just as salt preserves and brings out the best flavors in foods, we desire to bring out the best in those within our sphere of influence. Yet, salt must dissipate into the food to be effective. In the same way, even for us introverts, we must close our computers, leave our secluded homes, and go into the world around us. The power of influence is both an opportunity and a responsibility.
For some of us, nothing is more humbling than to know others are watching and imitating us? What a privilege, however, to be a positive influence on another person! God has given us the ability to affect the thoughts, actions, and decisions of more people than we might realize. Our quiet example and consistent character speak louder than words. As we faithfully follow Jesus, even during the most difficult times, it creates a pathway for others to follow.
“Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom.“
James 3:13
May it become obvious that we, too, are walking with Jesus (Acts 4:13). Bless you, dear friends. Let’s go, boldly and spread a little salt! Together, we will make a positive difference in the lives of others. It sure beats being a mosquito!
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